It’s one thing when I get ghosted by someone on the street, or an ex, or a “seasonal” friend that I “self-prophesied” would not stick around. But when “you” ghosted me, it hit different. I hear people use the excuse “that’s why I don’t go to church” as if the barfly they met last night would never leave them (just a joke because I’m sure they would not). However, we have standards. But the difference was I ran with you,…

I sat in the room and I was nervous. I had the feeling all week this was coming and I had a small comfort and a peace, yet I was very scared inside my heart. I was ready for the letdown. It was far from my first. I talked small talk with someone 20 years my younger. I knew I was about to be asked to step down by this young man and this was hard. I thought back to…

I could never choose the right category for people. I would meet someone and immediately box them into a “kingdom friendship” (a lifer). However, I was inappropriately categorizing this person. They were an assignment. They were merely seasonal. You don’t share trade secrets, vent, or give insider information to an assignment, yet I did. Then I would watch appalled as the assignment would turn into an assassin, over and over. This is because I miscategorized an assignment. Some came along…

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